the grass can always look greener on the other side

the key understanding here is that greener grass still has dead spots, learn to live with the dead spots, if it gets too much, try another green patch; but realize there will be dead spots

do something new/scary everyday

this is hard, if not impossible, but perhaps 1 new thing per week to start?  finished mine yesterday - presenting material I was prepared to present in front of 90+ people,